Mocking My Natural Curls Makes Me Cry Part 2

Hey! First and foremost, I wanna say a big THANK YOU to readers and team in this site for the moral support. It helped me a lot and I am so grateful for the advice!

Here is my update since my last post last year!

It has been very overwhelming. My curls have grown and it's a love hate relationship. I still have not found any hairdressers in this country who specialise in managing curly hair. Whenever I walk into a salon, each and every one of the hairstylists goes "Oh my god! Your hair is so curly!" and the way they touch it is like, it's disgusting.

I can't get much in the way of curly hair products here either because everyone here is born with straight hair. When I order products online, they usually cost a bomb. Singapore is a very humid tropical country and if it's super hot, my curls automatically super frizz up and I have to load up on moisturisers.

I got made fun throughout this whole embracing-my-curls process and I still get that now and it does not bother me anymore. Having these curls defines Me and I love it

But what bothers me is that I do not feel sexy at all, especially when the wind blows my hair. It becomes nappy. Do you ladies go through this as well?