Any woman who has ever struggled with her hair will recognise the passion in these haircut stories.
Tales of hair disasters and triumphs, tribulations, despair, experiments gone wrong, evolution, recriminations, exultation. Stories that confront the bitter-sweet, love-you hate-you relationship that exists between a woman and her hair.
Where does this intensity come from?
It starts very young.
The Danville Advocate Messenger reports an example:
Marissa, a 4-year-old preschooler, raises her hand. "Mrs. Robinson. Could you fix my hair?" she asks, already embarking on a female obsession that will last another 70 to 80 years or so.
The image a woman presents to the world is of immense importance to her. Her hair and her face are partners in creating (what she hopes is) the focal point of her image.
And while she can't structurally change her face ... hmm ... Let me rephrase that - while a woman usually will elect not to change her face structurally, she can, and feels compelled to, and does, frequently, change her hair.
With results that can surprise, delight or appall her.
And there are days when a woman's hair goes AWOL and does whatever it feels like, leaving the rest of her image to fend for itself.
Bad hair days.
Incidentally, a bit of knowledge can help you avoid bad hair days, and save money as well. You can read about it here.
Now where were we? Ah yes, women and their hair!
The torment is multiplied when, by her very nature, a woman desires precisely the type of hair she doesn't have. The quest for it leads her on long and difficult journeys, fraught with terrifying images in the mirror.
Did any girls ever reach womanhood without having spilled tears of rage and frustration over their hair?
Do you have a story about a curly haircut? A happy haircut story? A hair cut disaster story? A cautionary tale for others about to cut their curly locks?
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Vagina Hair...
Up until I was seven years old, I always had dead-straight, dark brown hair. One day, it started to get curlier and curlier until it got to the state it ...
Curing My Bad Hair Days
My thin hair has been wavy, curly and frizzy my entire life. Shrinkage was something I became familiar with long before I knew the effect cold water has ...
My lifelong battle with my hair
In my whole life, there've been about ten days where I've truly loved my hair, and roughly eight of them must have happened before I was three years old....
Do you ever try to straighten your hair?
So there I am. Walking down the halls of high school, minding my own business when some random girl comes up to me and says it. The one sentence I hate ...
Just say no!
Is it ego? What would make a hair dresser "try" to cut your hair, when you have explicitly asked "do you know how to cut curly hair?"
I am a black woman ...
Curly Hair
My hair was curly when I was born. Then, as I got older, it became board straight. I hit puberty, and it curled again.
A lot of these stories talk about ...
The Time of the Tail
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Since I've been in college I have learned new and exciting ways to stretch my meager part-time job earnings.
As a result of this, this past year I ...
Never Get Wisps of Bangs!!!
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I have had curly hair all of my life. It started to really curl when I was about 5. It was very cute and very ringlety. It stayed curly throughout my high ...
How I Ended Up Walking Around Looking Like A Clown
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So I don't like going to get my hair cut because most of the time when I go I look WORSE coming out than going in. And this was by far the WORST.
I ...
That Kind Hair
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My mother swears the nurses fought over who was going to comb my hair when I was born. It was a head full of wavy black curls. As I got older the family ...
Haircut
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I went to a different salon to have my hair done because my hairdresser was not available. I asked the woman doing my hair if she knew how to cut curly ...
Solution for Frizz
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I struggled for a long time with my curly hair. I started experimenting with making it look good while curly and came up with this formula:
- Take a ...
Are you a BOY?
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I hate my hair... or at least I did. You see I was one of those kids who basically raised herself. I was taught the fine art of doing laundry, washing ...
The Curly Journey
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All my life I have wanted straight hair.
In high school I used to wake up two hours before everyone else and would flat iron my hair only to have a ...
Anything but Lovely Locks
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I'm only a teenager. My hair is dark brown, with unnatural gold highlights. It's is curly/wavy. Depends. Sometimes the curls are long and loose. Other ...
Growing Out
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I've always had curly hair.
When I was young I had those soft, blond curls everyone adored ... those curls I hated.
I would cut it short, because ...
Blonde and Curly Haircut Story
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I didn't really have much hair to speak of until I was about 3 or 4 but it grew in as beautiful golden blonde curls that bunched up around the back of ...
Curly Haircut Story
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I am 41 years old. All my life I have despised my curls. I have been called all sorts of names - mophead, freebush ... and I've heard the "finger in a ...
Still More Hair Cut Stories
Murphy Horner's story is a wonderful tale of a life reluctantly shared with curly hair. It first appeared in her WonderBlog on March 10, 2003.
Leah McLaren's story was published in the Globe and Mail on November 6, 2004. It documents the journey of a woman with straight hair who always wanted the curly hair styles that seemed beyond her reach. And there was one curly hair style in particular that she always wanted!
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